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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

'LDS Mixed Martial Artist Aims 4 UFC'

Derek "the Gentleman" Downey is not your typical mortgage salesman.  Although he can check credit, consolidate debt & refinance mortgages w/the best of them, he can also get you into a submission hold much faster than he can get you into a home.

But Downey's mortgage-selling days may soon be over.  Having recently signed a contract for 4 televised fights w/the Ultimate Fighting Championship (UFC), Downey is one step closer to stepping out of the office & into the ring full-time.

While the UFC is the organization that pits fighters against each other, the sport Downey & other fighters participate in is called Mixed Martial Arts, or MMA.  This sport combines various types of martial arts, including Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu, Muay Thai & Judo, & w/the foundation of the UFC in 1993, MMA has taken the U.S. by storm, raking in more than $200 million annually from pay-per-view alone.

Downey got involved w/MMA after he returned home 2 Orem, UT, from his mission in 2001;  he started off doing Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu w/some of his friends @ a local gym.

Downey's instructor noticed his natural ability & started spending more one-on-one time w/him, & as Downey progressed, he became a sparring partner, helping prep other guys 4 their fights.  Once he started beating the guys he was prepping, Downey tried a fight of his own.  He never looked back.

"I took 2 it like a fish 2 water," said the father of 4.  "It made sense 2 me."

As a BYU graduate in philosophy, it may seem odd that Downey would be so involved in what many believe 2 be a violent & mindless sport, but just as Aristotle suggested that our perceptions are often wrong, there may be more 2 MMA than meets the eye.

"It's more like kinetic chess - 2 guys using their minds & their bodies 2 try & win a physical contest," said Adam Legas, Downey's sponsor & owner of the Throwdown Elite Training Center in Orem.

And what a grueling contest it is;  in order 2 simply prepare 4 matches, Derek trains anywhere from 5-7 hrs a day, w/strength training @ 8 am, sparring @ 10 am, work @ noon & then team practice @ 8:30 pm.

It can be hard 2 juggle so much, but Downey is careful about focusing his efforts on whatever he does - whether it's training or family.  "When I'm @ work, I'm @ work, when I'm lifting, I'm lifting & when I'm home, I'm @ home;  I don't let them overlap," Downey said.

In addition 2 his responsibilities as a mortgage salesman, fighter, husband & father, Downey is also the 1st counselor in the Young Men's presidency in his ward & attends every mutual every Wednesday night.

"My goal [in the UFC] is 2 be the world champion, & I want nothing more than 2 fight 4 a title & be known as one of the best fighters," Downey said.  "But I love the youth.  This is my 2nd time serving w/the Young Men, & eventually my long-term goal would be 2 work w/high school kids, speaking 2 them about goals & preparing & conditioning."

How AWESOME is that??  :D  I think it's so GREAT that there's more positive aspects of this sport being portrayed by the media & that it's not just looked @ as a 'mindless' sport.  I love it!!  :D  It's such an INTENSE sport that requires so much training & I totally RESPECT all the fighters that participate in it & give it their ALL 2 become the BEST!!  :D  I love this article & just had 2 post it cause it just goes 2 show that if you LOVE & WORK HARD @ things in your life. . . .there's always a way 2 balance things out in a way that YOU benefit 4rom it most.  Although it may not be EASY, the outcome always outweighs the less appealing side of things.  It's like Christ's famous words, "I never said it would be easy.  I only said it would be worth it."  



Tuesday, June 9, 2009

'Trust In The Lord'

So I totally had 2 share the new 'YOUTUBE Mormon Message' that's on the LDS home page right now.  They all truly touch my heart in ways that strengthen my faith.  I have a few people that are close 2 me in my life that I know have struggled these same struggles as this faithful mother has.  And I love the strength & courage she portrays while struggling w/the trials & tribulations in her life that cause her so much pain.  And then 2 be able 2 realize thru all of this how much the Lord loves us & how he knows what's BEST 4 us even more than we do.  She is truly an example in my life & has strengthened my testimony in knowing that God lives.  And that he wants us all to be HAPPY.  But that doesn't stop the endless trials 4rom entering our lives.  But instead teaches us all 2 endure 2 the end & give our lives 2 the Lord knowing that we will be BETTER people 4 it.  




It has allowed me 2 look back on my own life & notice how much my husband & I have done just that recently & have allowed our burdens 2 be lifted 4rom off our shoulders.  Instead of trying so hard 2 be so INDEPENDENT & think that we can do everything ourselves w/no outside help that it caused us a lot of heart ache in the past, we have built our faith up & kept hold of our covenants so that we may be able 2 rely on the Lord in our everyday strife.  It's been a continual journey & one that I'm so GRATEFUL 2 be sharing w/my husband of 9 yrs as of this coming October.  :D  I thank him dearly 4 being worthy of his priesthood & 4 keeping himself worthy 2 take me 2 the temple frequently.  I'm honored & most importantly, GRATEFUL, 2 be his wife & the mother of his kids.  :D  

Monday, June 8, 2009

Half Way Point Already?? :D













It has recently occurred 2 me that we have reached the 'HALF WAY POINT' for 2009 & I can't believe how much time has just flown by.  :D  This week is the last week 4 the girls in school & they're so EXCITED 4 the 'TUAKOI FAMILY REUNION' camp 2 start a week 4rom 2day.  :D  Woo hoo!!  :D  A lot has been going on in our family these past couple of weeks & we're so EXCITED 2 kick off our summer VACAY w/a 4 day camp @ Bear Lake w/all our family!!  :D  And especially grateful 4 the Finau family 4 being so ORGANIZED w/creating groups & delegating activities 4 this camp that'll make it so much more PRODUCTIVE & so much more FUN 4 all of us while we're there.  :D  I love it!!  :D

2day we are also celebrating my niece's 6th grade graduation!!  Yay 4 Cedez!!  :D  She has been such a JOY in my life since the day she was born.  Kind, loving, thoughtful & always doing 4 others.  She continues 2 set such a GREAT example 4 all of us.  She will be attending a 6 day educational trip 2 Washington DC in September & if my health is well enough. . . . .I think I'll be going too.  Lol.  :D  She strives 2 do her best in school & we're so PROUD of her & her accomplishments thus far.  :D  She's AWESOME & continues 2 strive 2 be better!!  We love you so much Cedez!!  :D  And I don't care if it's just your 6th grade grad.  Hahahaha!!  We're still so PROUD of you!!  :D  And the theme of their graduation 2night was 'Dare 2 Dream Out Loud'  How powerful is that!!  Totally LOVE it!!  :D  Way 2 encourage our next generation 2 reach 4 the stars!!  :D  Woo hoo!!  :D

With that said. . . .we have a busy summer in store 4 our family & are definitely looking 4ward 2 the good times!!  :D  Gotta get out there & LIVE IN THE PRESENT.  Don't let life just pass you by & don't be a result of circumstances.  MAKE THINGS HAPPEN in your life.  You are in TOTAL CONTROL!!  :D  I love that we're @ the 'HALF WAY POINT ALREADY'  And look 4ward 2 every single moment of living that we're doing & will continue doing 4 the rest of our lives!!  :D  


Monday, June 1, 2009

Sneak Peak @ More 2 Come!! :D














I had 2 post our family pics that we took on Memorial Day w/Hoko's side of the family.  They turned out GREAT & I can't wait 2 see the rest of 'em.  These are just a few of the ones that we had taken & I want 2 thank Sila so much 4 taking our pictures.  :D  She's an AWESOME photographer & so TALENTED @ what she does.  I definitely recommend her 2 any & everyone out there who wants 2 get their pictures taken.  She's AMAZING!!  :D  I'll definitely post again once we receive the rest of the pics that we took on that day.  

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Mormon Channel On Youtube. . . .



How wonderful is it 4 us 2 have our leaders tapping into resources such as 'youtube' in order 2 keep up w/the times as well as 2 reach out 2 the masses. I consider it a GREAT privilege 2 be able 2 have these resources so readily available 2 all who are willing 2 open their hearts & minds 2 the great counsels we receive in order 2 continually rear our families in ways that is pleasing 2 our Father in Heaven. :D

We always look 4ward 2 General Conference & are always so sad once the weekend has ended & we have 2 wait another 6 months 4 the next one, but this has been a GREAT help in being a constant reminder of what was taught & is still being taught 2 us 2day. I love it so much & am ETERNALLY GRATEFUL 4 all the blessings that come 4rom our heeding 2 the word of the Lord. I look 4ward, ALWAYS, 2 the creations of these INSPIRATIONAL video clips that are so filled w/all these teachings & reminders 2 help us stay on track. :D I hope & pray that as we are preparing 4 yet another Sabbath day, that we will HEED the counsels of our modern day prophet as well as his counselors in order 2 return 2 our Heavenly Father as eternal families one day. Because He said, "I never said it would be easy. I only said it would be worth it."

It's About That Time. . . .



I love this time of year when the weather warms up enough 4 us 2 make our weekend visits 2 the 'DRIVE INS'  Not only is it A LOT cheaper, but we love being outdoors & being able 2 bring whatever food we can get our hands on.  Lol.  And I'm not CONSTANTLY trying 2 keep my younger ones quiet 4 the sake of not disturbing other movie goers. . . .  :D  

2night we had the opportunity 2 watch 'Night @ The Museum II'  And I must say that we totally LOVED it!!  Ben Stiller is AMAZING & HILARIOUS!!  I love watching MOST of his movies cause I know I'm in 4 a laugh.  :D  And what can I say. . . . .we all need as many 'GOOD LAUGHS' as we can get 2 keep us all happy, healthy & most importantly:  SANE!!  Hahaha!!  :D  

I have 2 give a BIG 'thank you' 2 my husband 4 being such a good sport.  He didn't get home til about 7 pm & when I 1st brought up going 2 the drive ins 2night, he totally gave me that look like I was crazy since I know he has 2 get up @ 4:30 am & head 2 work in the morning.  So I just left it @ that & when we got back 4rom the store, he said 2 call the kids in the house so we can get ready 2 go.  :D  I was so EXCITED!!  The kids work hard all week long in school & in staying on top of their chores that every once in a while, it's nice 2 reward them as well as spend some quality family time 2gether.  :D  Something no material thing in this world can compensate 4.  :D  

The girls will be getting out of school in the next few weeks & we're so EXCITED 2 be planning family trips & summer activities w/them.  One that'll be coming up real soon that's @ the TOP of the list right now. . . . .has DEFINITELY got 2 be the celebration of my niece, Cedez's, 6th grade graduation party.  My sister's throwing it @ Cowabunga Bay Water Park.  It opens June 12th & looks like it's gonna be a BLAST not only 4 the kids, but definitely 4 the adults as well.  :D  I can't wait.   :D  It's definitely about that time of year 2 get outdoors more & enjoy this weather & just enjoy LIFE itself.  :D

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Updates On A Busy, Yet Definitely Productive Family Life!! :D





I can't express how GRATEFUL & how deeply BLESSED I know I am 2 be able 2 spend everyday being a MOTHER 2 my kids.  My husband's HARD @ work right now w/only an hour's commute away & I don't take it 4 granted that he gets 2 come home 2 me EVERYDAY!!  :D  Ask him yourself. . . .he'll back up every word.  Hahahaha!!  

I've been getting my life back on track & getting re-focused on where I'm going in life & what I need 2 be doing everyday in order 2 reach my goals.  I'm happy 2 say that it's been a bumpy, yet very ENJOYABLE road & I wouldn't change a thing about it.  Aaliyah & Lote are doing GREAT in school & I have an appointment next week 2 get them signed up in taking violin & piano lessons.  Something they've been waiting a long time 2 start.  :D  We're definitely EXCITED about that.  

We've been catching up on yard work around our home & it's definitely starting 2 look a little more cleaned up & organized than a couple of weeks ago.  Lol.  We finally got a new vacuum & I am so 'IN LOVE' w/it.  It cleans up so well & yet it was the cheapest, on sale one 4rom Walmart.  I love it!!  :D  Can't complain when you can actually smell the Febreze plug-ins that are all around the house.  Hahaha!!  

As you all know REAL ESTATE is an ongoing thing w/me & I must say that it's my PASSION.  I'm not quite sure yet what part of it is the BEST part or even what part of it I'll enjoy the MOST.  But I can definitely say that I'm EXCITED 2 get started in it.  On Tuesday I loaded up the 3 younger ones into the car & we took a trip 2 the Herriman Library 2 pick up Donald Trump's latest, Think Like A Champion.  And I must confess that he's definitely my MENTOR.  Who knows REAL ESTATE better than the Donald himself.  He has a Wealth Summit coming up in a couple of weeks @ the Ritz Carlton Marina Del Ray that is free & open 2 the public so I'm in the process of putting 2gether a sales pitch 2 my mom in hopes that it'll be a SUCCESS & that I can convince her in going w/me & being my guest.  Since my husband can't make the trip w/me, she's my next best bet!!  :D  I'm really OPTIMISTIC that even w/the economy the way it is. . . .America will get back on it's feet as we always have done in the past.  I'm a FIRM believer that if we work on what we can control in our lives, which starts w/our everyday thinking, we will overcome & come out on top w/this milestone in our lives as a GREAT lesson learned & hopefully one that will help us not make the same mistake again.  I'm confident in our President of this great country & continue 2 support his leadership.  I am always confident in the leaders that lead our church & know that the promises are still the same if we do our part in living our lives righteously & striving 4 the eternal blessings that we all deserve.  :D  On that note, I'm going 2 get started on my workout 4 the day & wish you all a WONDERFUL week & weekend.  :D